tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1000326625965122367.post6080233168459001885..comments2024-03-08T17:14:17.994-05:00Comments on Pray For Lilly: The grieving process - can you really finish it?Lisahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06306217651417023803noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1000326625965122367.post-55391340676992732042015-01-31T20:36:52.116-05:002015-01-31T20:36:52.116-05:00That was so well said, MelanieBeth, thank you for ...That was so well said, MelanieBeth, thank you for writing that. You really summed it up well. We will find out in heaven one day, if our wee ones were boys or girls. I can't wait to see my little one - what they look like and to hug and kiss them! I'm sure you feel the same. Thank God for HOPE.Lisahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06306217651417023803noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1000326625965122367.post-66109058949047741802015-01-29T17:58:12.995-05:002015-01-29T17:58:12.995-05:00I love you family I love you family Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1000326625965122367.post-71405686853942609532015-01-29T17:57:34.523-05:002015-01-29T17:57:34.523-05:00Cute Lilly BugCute Lilly BugAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1000326625965122367.post-63043091267692785672015-01-29T14:09:24.159-05:002015-01-29T14:09:24.159-05:00I think maybe you get totally past the grief when ...I think maybe you get totally past the grief when the part of your life that you hoped you would spend with that person is past. In the case of the loss of a child, that's when you die...and are reunited with your child in heaven. The physical pain of my miscarriage is gone. My body has healed. But the fact that I thought I'd still be pregnant and would be finding out next month what we were having, I'm still dealing with. We didn't just lose our children in that single moment of their passing. We continue to lose them each birthday, each major milestone, each event we thought they would be a part of. That's why grieving a child takes so long, even up to a lifetime. You've been in my thoughts a lot the past few months, and especially since my miscarriage when I joined the world of mothers who grieve the loss of their child. I hope as many people as you having telling you that you should be over it, you have many, many more showing you love and compassion and remembering both your children in Heaven with you.MelanieBethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05137796165695937464noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1000326625965122367.post-53254507929284132242015-01-28T07:02:42.293-05:002015-01-28T07:02:42.293-05:00Perfectly said, Lior. And I am sorry for your los...Perfectly said, Lior. And I am sorry for your loss.Lisahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06306217651417023803noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1000326625965122367.post-32419819241247746092015-01-28T07:00:52.903-05:002015-01-28T07:00:52.903-05:00That is the perfect illustration!That is the perfect illustration!Lisahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06306217651417023803noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1000326625965122367.post-8851925125401460802015-01-28T07:00:22.602-05:002015-01-28T07:00:22.602-05:00Some people really do say the darndest things!Some people really do say the darndest things!Lisahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06306217651417023803noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1000326625965122367.post-79486510838686595432015-01-28T06:59:44.207-05:002015-01-28T06:59:44.207-05:00I don't know how people, who do not have the h...I don't know how people, who do not have the hope of heaven, cope!Lisahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06306217651417023803noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1000326625965122367.post-88177403322483547312015-01-28T03:13:18.664-05:002015-01-28T03:13:18.664-05:00I don't think we will ever get over grieving -...I don't think we will ever get over grieving - and so many people say time heals - for me I say ... it doesn't you only learn to live with it. It has only been 8 months for me and I don't feel like I will ever deal with it <br />Liorhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07034647842966037635noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1000326625965122367.post-23231990260118185682015-01-28T00:10:02.011-05:002015-01-28T00:10:02.011-05:00In the book A Grace Disguised, about grief, Jerry ...In the book A Grace Disguised, about grief, Jerry Sittser compares catastrophic loss to limb amputation. The wound may heal, but the fundamental loss doesn't.Emily Gracehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11558246827497840165noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1000326625965122367.post-50285670192102043502015-01-27T16:42:37.484-05:002015-01-27T16:42:37.484-05:00I think the people asking you this are terribly ru...I think the people asking you this are terribly rude, and must not have ever had anyone close pass away. Nikkihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15253440747389521864noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1000326625965122367.post-84019102809667174772015-01-27T12:34:36.892-05:002015-01-27T12:34:36.892-05:00Tears...that was such a beautiful quote. I don'...Tears...that was such a beautiful quote. I don't know the process either but I know I think of every loved one I have lost everyday and miss them deeply. My papaw(dad) my father-in-love and Jonathan. It reminds me that we were never ment to face death and makes me worship Jesus because he gives us such a wonderful hope of Heaven. I love the pictures in the post the are so precious!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14497636907002853665noreply@blogger.com