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The story of our precious little girl's 17 months of life with Trisomy 18 (July 4, 2010 - December 15, 2011) and of us, re-learning to live "after Lilly."
"I will praise you for I am fearfully and wonderfully made ...." Psalm 139:14
Showing posts with label angel feather tin. Show all posts
Showing posts with label angel feather tin. Show all posts

Sunday, October 2, 2016

Better late that never ... back to school time

Last week Aletha Academy was FINALLY back in swing.  ("Aletha" means "truth" in Greek and is the name of our homeschool.)  Though we had a "soft start" to get used to school again.  This week we will be back to all our regular subjects.

I am following the Ambleside Online (Charlotte Mason) curriculum for "year 3" for Hunter.  I've been homeschooling for 10 years and have been all over the place with different schooling methods and curriculum.  But a few years ago, we gave Ambleside's suggestions a shot and worked out awesome.  I used it the last year that I homeschooled Tabby, and she says that was her best year. 

Solomon will have a mix of Montessori, Charlotte Mason, and whatever else we want to work on.  I don't think you HAVE to have specific sit down learning time with a 4 year old because they are learning by doing things with you, and alone, all day.  But, Solomon LOVES learning and asks to "do school."  Hunter loves learning too, though he prefers doing his own thing.  ;)  Solomon usually listens to anything I read Hunter.  And last week he learned 3 scriptures right along with us.  (I decided to try the memory verse method by Simply Charlotte Mason and it is working wonderfully.  Click here to learn about it and download scripture cards for free.)

finally a use for my strawberry file box!

I am SO THANKFUL that Hunter is a self motivated learner.  I had initially wanted to start our school back by mid-August but that didn't happen.  Tabby was sick so much and sick almost all of September.  So much of my time was researching, caring for her, and taking her to doctors.  (We are eagerly awaiting her lyme disease tests results which should be in on Tuesday.  She is still sick but continues to have an hour to a few hours a day now where she does not have the chest/stomach pain.  Though her joint pain continues and her face is terribly broken out with acne and lumps.  These increased when she began the Plexus so we know her body is detoxing.)
Back to Hunter, he keeps himself busy every day, and usually comes downstairs with a project already in mind.  Last week he built a radio using snap circuits and miscellaneous speakers he had taken out of things.  He likes to listen to the Classical Station because he said the music helps him to feel calm.



He reads every day - from the Thomas the Train original books to electrical and motor technical manuals to other good literature.  (He's been enjoying the original Doctor Dolittle series lately.)  He watches videos on YouTube by Matthias Wandel, a man in Canada that is an engineer/wood worker, and has learned so much. (I often find myself getting drawn into the videos too.  This guy is like a grown up version of Hunter.)  So why am I sharing all this?  I'm not bragging - I'm making myself feel better that we are starting school so late!  ;)

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Yes I know the sign is upside down - that's why he's smiling so big
I printed these wonderful Charlotte Mason motto signs, that I downloaded from this blog:


I need to add some quotes to our bulletin board, but for now have up my favorite Beatrix Potter quote:  "Thank goodness I was never sent to school; it would have rubbed off some of the originality."



For our work organization and so Hunter can see what we will be working on each morning, I use the Sue Patrick workbox system:

the boxes on the left were Tabby's, and I use them to store related work or books Hunter won't use that day
When Hunter finishes a subject, he can just flip the card around to show the red checkmark.  For subjects that he will do with me, I've added a "with Mama" card to the outside of the box:


I've printed several books from online that we will be using this year.  I love the idea of doing some beautiful book covers and binding.  But alas, there is that pesky time restraint crippled further by my perfectionistic ideals.  So for binding I decided I would laminate the cover and backpage, hole punch the sides, and use book rings to hold them together.  I can always redo them "more perfectly" one day, but for now I am pleased and they are working nicely.

3 book rings on this Marco Polo book I downloaded and printed
Finally, I'll leave you with some silly Solomon pictures.  He thinks it is so fun to be silly for the camera and asks me to take lots of pictures:







"But you must continue in the things which you have learned and been assured of, knowing from whom you have learned them,  and that from childhood you have known the Holy Scriptures, which are able to make you wise for salvation through faith which is in Christ Jesus." - 1 Timothy 3:14-15

Thursday, August 29, 2013

The Lilly Memorial Project: Angel feather tin

Caleb - 3/20/09 - 8/29/11 - full Trisomy 18

Recently I was reading a lovely magazine called Seasons at Home.  (This magazine, by a homeschooling family, is full of crafts, woodworking projects, recipes, encouragement, etc.)  One of the craft ideas in their summer issue was to take a mint tin box and cover it with pretty paper and decorate it and fill it to use as a little sewing kit.  I've seen similar ideas with the mint tins before, but the one in the magazine was just so pretty I felt inspired to make one.  I don't really have a lot of extra crafting time but the idea popped into my mind to use the little tins as "thinking of you" gifts for families who have lost loved ones.

Caleb - what a beautiful smile!
I made my first "angel feather tin" the other day and mailed it to the family of Caleb.  Caleb was a sweet little boy that lived over two years with full Trisomy 18.  His 2nd angelversary is today.  (You can read about Caleb's life on his blog Caleb's Journey.)

Caleb's mama is a wonderful resource and I've been blessed to talk with her by phone several times.  I learned a lot from her when Lilly was several months old and I needed direction for treatments and daily care.

I sort of made up the box project as I went along, but the end result made me smile.

I put a white feather in the box, and printed out this angel feather poem:


A feather from an Angel
Is one we rarely see.
But this one is quite different,
And as special as can be.

This feather is a reminder
Of a special person's love...
Who is now your Guardian Angel
Watching and protecting from above.


I also printed out this scripture:  “See, I am sending an angel before you, to guard you on the way and bring you to the place I have prepared.”  --  Exodus 23:20

I then printed out several pictures of Caleb.  Finally I strung Caleb's name in letter beads along with an angel and cross beads.

I thought it turned out nice and found it really theraputic to make.  I may have enjoyed it more than his family.  I look forward to making one for my Lilly sometime and also other angel families.  Maybe I'll become the "angel feather tin lady" or something.  :)  We'll see how they are received.  My goal is simply to honor other angel children in little ways that tell their families that their child is not forgotten.

Here are some pictures of Caleb's box:

 





Tabby made the Mighty Mouse bottle cap magnet for me to include.  Caleb was nicknamed "Mouse" and we all think of Caleb when we see Mighty Mouse.

Dear READERS:  If you have any empty mint tins that you don't want, I'd love to have them for future angel feather boxes.  Thank you!